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The Top 10 Hottest Pornstars Right Now
The porn industry currently has more pornstars than ever and as we say goodbye to 2015 and hello to 2016, picking a top 10 list is getting even harder. You might not agree with all of the ladies we’ve listed but we hope you agree that they are all hot – let us know in the comments if you don’t agree with any of the girls, and suggest girls that you would add instead!
Madison Ivy
Madison has been one of the most watched pornstars now for a long time, she has a perfect body – that’s an understatement, she has the best god damn body we have ever seen. She’s well-tanned, with big tits, a dirty face and some of the best videos around star this beauty.
Dani Daniels
Dani is relatively new to the porn industry, and she’s since become one of our favourites. She has a fantastic body, handful size tits and dirty mind. Her face, kind of looks a bit tom-boyish, like the hot chick from Fast and Furious (Letty AKA Michelle Rodriguez) which we like a lot.
Mia Malkova
The American ‘bubble butt’, blonde, 22 year old has only been in the industry a few years but has already managed to pick up 5 awards and has nominated for several more. Her tits are on the smallish side, however that is well made up for with her awesome ass and a cute ‘school girl’ face.
Skyla Novea
Although Skyla has been active since around 2013 when she appeared over at Reality Kings as well as a few nude model sites she only turned mainstream this year appearing at most of the top networks including Naughty America, Brazzers and Reality Kings. She’s got to be one of the hottest redheads ever to have graced our screens, she’s got a fantastic figure, a pretty face and a great set of tits. We’re looking forward to seeing a lot more of Skyla.
Mia Khalifa
We’re in love with this girl, who isn’t? She’s got celebrities after her, sports stars after her and the whole porn lovers after her. She’s got one of the best bodies we have ever seen in porn and a cute face which only adds to the attraction. She seems innocent from the outside, but she most definitely isn’t.
Ariana Marie
She’s our pornstar of the month for January, and she’s deserved to be on this list for a while now – we’ve just been too busy to update it. Ariana is one of the most beautiful girls in porn right now, and she’s more active now than she has ever been (especially on Twistys) so here she is.
Nicole Aniston
Nicole, like Kagney is the typical hot ‘girl next door’ type of blonde pornstar, though we are not a huge fan of here tits, compared to Kagney they are a bit, well… pointy. However, we have to admit that here body is in a bit better shape, though that depends on preference of course!
Cassidy Banks
Cassidy is of course featured on our hottest black pornstars list, and we’d be fools not to add her here too. She’s gained a lot of popularity recently, you only need to take one look at her to find out why. She’s got the curves, the tits and the love of sex to be in this list for a very long time.
Anissa Kate
The 27 year old French-born beauty has some of the best natural tits in the industy, and thanks to her Arab bloodline she has an awesome natural tan skin colour. She’s been a porn actress for just 3 years but has already starred in over 100 adult films, which means there is always a new video to watch!
Kagney Linn Karter
Ah, the busty blonde that you have no doubt seen before, awesome tits, blonde hair and a pretty face – the classic porn girl look. She’s been in the porno industry for 6 years and with over 300 videos in the bag she is well and truly a pornstar veteran.
Previously on the List
Although these girls are no longer on the list, that doesn’t make them any less hot. They may have only been demoted because they haven’t released any content for a while – or they may have been demoted because a new hotter pornstar has come along. Either way, we’ve kept them here because they have deserved to be here.
Rikki Six
Rikki Six, as you may have noticed while browsing this site, she is one of our favourite pornstars right now. We love blondes here at IFL Porn, and we love them even more when they have a body to die for – bit tits and some
Jayden Jaymes
Jayden is the veteran of this list, being involved in the porn industry for a massive 18 years and appearing in 320+ movies (only slightly more than Kagney). Surprisingly however, she has only won 3 awards despite being nominated for 22, I guess that shows how good the competition is in this day and age!
Christy Mack
Unfortunately since Christy Mack no longer performs in porn (at the moment anyway) we had to remove her from the top 10. We love inked babes here at IFL Porn and Christy Mack is no exception, we love her half shaved hair, beautiful face, nice tits and perfect ass and she’s performed in some well set-up videos – there’s not a lot to complain about when it comes to Christy Mack!
Anjelica
The sexy Russian teen Anjelica has proven to be hugely popular online as of late, there’s something about her that makes you keep wanting more. Her tits are on the small side, but that’s made up for with her petite frame and beautiful face. All of her scenes have a strange aura about them, she plays innocent but in reality she’s a naughty girl – especially in the bedroom
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Sunday, March 20, 2016
Why Make-Up Sex and Breakup Sex Are So Good
"I am an expert in make-up sex and have done it so many times." A married woman
"I feel more love during make-up sex because I know that no matter what happened, our love has survived it." A married woman
"I've never had make-up sex in my whole life, despite a lot of fighting." A divorcee
"Breakup sex is AMAZING! It's really hard to explain till you experience it! WAY better than make-up sex!” An anonymous man
Make-up sex is wild and extremely gratifying sex that people report having experienced after having had an intense fight. Why, in the wake of having had a bitter fight, is everything forgotten while the couple engage in what many say is amazingly wild and enjoyable sex? And why is breakup sex similarly so exciting?
Arousal transfer
The basic explanation for the excitement in make-up sex is the transfer of the arousal state from one situation to another. When we are excited by one stimulus, we are likely to be easily excited by another one. Make-up sex is considered by many to be the best sex there is, which in many cases is worth the fight.
The arousal (excitation) transfer is expressed in the classic bridge experiment (link is external)conducted in 1974 by Donald Dutton and Arthur Aron. In this experiment, male passersby were contacted either on a fear-arousing suspension bridge or a non-fear-arousing bridge by an attractive woman who asked them to fill out questionnaires. Sexual arousal toward the woman was greater in subjects on the fear-arousing bridge. Their fear arousal was transferred to sexual arousal generated by the presence of an attractive woman. Another example of such transfer can occur when we watch certain movies: Our the anger toward the villain can easily turn into the arousal underlying happiness upon seeing the villain punished.
The great excitement generated by make-up sex can be explained along similar lines. The high arousal state associated with the fight is transferred to a high arousal state during the make-up sex. The fantastic sex that ensues is to some extent due to the change in mood and the (at least temporary) relief at reconciliation with the partner, but it is also the result of arousal transfer from the fight to the sex. Make-up sex takes place after an unpleasant, heated fight with the partner that has created a gulf between the two and threatened the very existence of the relationship; make-up sex then re-establishes their bond in a very tangible manner. As one woman said, "Our relationship is that much more secure after make-up sex, in addition to the added relief of being reconnected to my closest companion. It’s a reminder that even though we can hurt each other, we’re still there for each other."
A similar manner of increasing sexual arousal by transferring arousal from a different state is when one partner acts wildly and even sadistically toward the other. Here the arousal underlying anger and even revenge is transferred into sexual arousal. A more subtle manner of increasing sexual arousal is teasing, which involves a gentle and humorous argument (simulating a "fight") that increases sexual arousal.
The arousal transfer can arise not merely from negative emotions, such as the anger that prevails during fights, but also from positive emotions, such as enjoying a good dinner together or engaging in other pleasurable experiences. It can also be activated by sexual arousal that is triggered by another person, such as a good-looking neighbor or the hero in the movie, and that is then transferred to your own partner. As Rodney Dangerfield said, "Last time I tried to make love to my wife nothing was happening, so I said to her, 'What’s the matter, you can’t think of anybody either?'”
Emotions are very dynamic and contagious phenomena: they can easily spread from one person to another (see here). Thus, when we see a sad person crying, many of us become sad as well. When someone loves us, we are more likely to love that person in return. And when we are aware of a sexually aroused person near us, we become horny as well.
The dynamic and instable nature of emotions is reflected not merely in the easy transfer of emotions from one person to another person, but also in the transfer of an emotion within the same person. The love-hate situation is such a case. Intense love can become a fertile ground for the emergence of intense hate. The arousal transfer mechanism is involved in this case as well. The transfer is possible when a change occurs in the focus of attention under different circumstances. Thus, when the lover focuses his attention on his partner's wisdom, he loves her dearly. When he thinks about the humiliation she brings upon him, he hates her guts.
Breakup sex
Breakup sex ("one for the road") is the bittersweet, passionate sex you have with your partner shortly after, whilst, or shortly before breaking up with them (Urban dictionary(link is external)). Some people consider breakup sex is to be even better than makeup sex. The exciting nature of "goodbye bed" sex is due to its unique circumstances: this is the last chance to enjoy sex with each other. As Ted Spiker (link is external)said, "It's like the day before a diet. Tomorrow I'll start, but today I'm going to enjoy one last order of chicken wings." The sex is especially great when the relationship was basically good but nonromantic reasons, such as different life plans, force the two to separate. Breakup sex involves the caring that remains despite the separation. As Aradia (link is external)describes her breakup sex, "We'd have one last hurrah and it was a damn great one! What a way to end the relationship! It actually really helped and it'll be a nice memory down the line."
Due to its terminal nature, people feel no inhibitions or constraints in breakup sex and behave in however they wish, without worrying about the after-effect or the future. In this moving but sad experience, people usually do not speak of the bad times and what ruined the relationship; they are immersed in the exciting presence, knowing that no future remains. They often take the attitude of “Eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die.“ Nothing is meaningful except for the present sexual togetherness. In breakup sex, the excitement stems from experiencing a togetherness that is unconstrained by past and future circumstances. In makeup sex, the excitement stems from overcoming past difficulties and looking positively toward the future. The total lack of constraint is what makes breakup sex usually the more exciting of the two.
The risks of make-up and breakup sex
Make-up sex has its own risks, one of which is reinforcing fights, or at least not taking fights as seriously as they should be taken (see Seth Meyers's post). This is particularly true when the fights are violent, as in the case of battered women. Often, immediately after domestic violence, men force their wives to have make-up sex with them; it goes without saying how awful this makes the women feel. However, in other cases, when a certain time has passed since the violence occurred, make-up sex can make it easier for these women to return to their violent husbands as if nothing has happened.
Consider the true story Tina Nash(link is external), a severely battered woman who stayed with her boyfriend despite his violent behavior. After a particular violent episode, she returned the next day to pick up her car from outside his apartment, and although he smashed her car up, she took him back. She writes: “We made passionate love that night. The make-up sex with him was 10 times more intense than I’d ever experienced before. He was slow and loving and looked at me like he wanted to own my soul.” A few months later, she lost her sight as a result of his violence.
Make-up sex in bad relations does not involve a true resolution to the conflict but rather a temporary cover-up, which distracts the couple's attention from their profound difficulties. When fights are constant and extreme, make-up sex act like like a drug that gives temporary, illusory relief but is not a deep or genuine solution.
Breakup sex can be of value in two main situations: (a) you still like each other and want to remain friends, and (b) the decision to separate was mutual. In some cases, the breakup sex can be quite sad and painful. As Scott (link is external)writes, "My girlfriend took me out on a romantic weekend with the idea of having sex as many times as possible and then dumping me before checking out. It made me very angry and bitter." For other people, especially those whose love for their partner has died, the "goodbye bed" made them feel sad at being used and for giving in and having a kind of pity sex. As one woman (link is external)wrote: "It made me feel dirty…and I will never do the 'goodbye bed' again." Breakup pregnancyor breakup STD (sexually transmitted disease) can be even worse. Another problem (or advanage) of breakup sex is that if it is so good, it generate second thoughts concerning the breakup which both of them thought it is the right thing to do.
Make-up sex in good and bad relationship
Make-up sex is a superficial remedy for fights. The remedy is beneficial when the relationship is basically positive, and the fights are typically local and limited—they do not express a fundamentally hostile split. However, when more profound problems underlie the relationship, make-up sex is of little value and may even invoke negative emotions by not treating the problem seriously. In this sense, the complete lack of make-up sex, despite the presence of constant fights (as described in one of the above quotations), expresses the significant problematic nature of the relationship, which make-up sex cannot help.
When the fights underlying make-up sex are local and limited, they may be like small amounts of poison that immunize the system or like a low-level noise that improves the system's performance (see here). When the poison and noise are significant, they can ruin the system. When fights preceding make-up sex are limited and local, they can be regarded as an obstacle that the couple can overcome, and sex is one of the ways in which to do so. In this latter case, when the relationship is basically positive, make-up sex is typically great and the relationship is likely to improve. When the fights are significant and express the problematic nature of the relationship, make-up sex can damage the relationship and the partners even further.
It is not necessary to provoke serious fights in order to have great sex, as there is a price to be paid for fighting. Moreover, if a fight is deliberately provoked, the subsequent sex may lose its attraction as a reaffirmation of love. Furthermore, as disagreements, misunderstandings and fights are common in healthy relationships, there is no need to artificially provoke them—there is just the need to overcome them in a positive manner.
To sum up, make-up sex and breakup sex can be valuable and wonderful in certain circumstances. In the case of make-up sex, the fights should be local and limited; and in the case of breakup sex, the two should still like each other and the breakup should be mutual. In other cases, both make-up sex and breakup sex can be harmful as they do not solve problems but merely deepen them. In any case, great sex is not limited to after-fights or goodbye bed experiences; it can also be part of profound love.
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